noun: security; plural noun: securities
the state of being free from danger or threat.
It is your job to figure out why you don't feel secure - whether in a job or in a relationship or in whatever other situation. What is it that you are afraid of? Once you figure out what it is, figure out what YOU can do to make the fear go away. Again, every fearful situation is different, and the steps you take for feeling ok will be different. Some times the threat is real, but you will find out that most often, it is just our minds getting "creative". The process of answering the question - "What am I afraid of" leads to "why am I afraid of it". That leads to "what will happen if the fear is manifested"? More often than not - the answer is nothing! And the fear disappears just like that!
Today, I have learned that a sense of security, just like happiness, is an internal job.
If you don't feel secure, nothing anyone will say or do will make it go away. Only you can make yourself secure.